Me trying to convince myself that saying no to being in a casual relationship wasn't me being an asshole π
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I feel invisible and mean
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Wondering why I lost more confidence as I did more brave things?
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How to stop feeling ashamed that I struggle/struggled with saying no?
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Do you guys ever forget that you're gay? π
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Help, how do I love myself as a lesbian of color?
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Male validation is ruining my life and self-understanding
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Idk where else to ask this
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The CCRR method: people found this useful so I'll put it here!
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Can anyone relate? I don't usually read romance in general
recommend and discuss the latest sapphic books you've been reading.
The Jasmine Throne, half way through and struggling
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Any resources on realistically moving out?
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Need advice on realistically moving out
Ask the internet about things your parents never taught you.
Struggling to feel desirable?
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Constantly hungry
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